Date Therapy
As a dating therapist, I help single people create a new road map for finding healthy love by learning to lead with their truest self.
My clients struggle like you do. Despite being kind, smart, capable high achievers — finding a healthy relationship is a lot harder than they thought it would be.
They’re often left feeling confused about whether or not the person is into them. They’re either told they’re too much or emotionally unavailable.
When they first come to therapy, they’re very close to giving up on dating. Dating feels mostly cringy. When they look back on their past relationships and dating history, they feel frustrated, inadequate, and close to truly believe they’re meant to be chronically single. They think if only they lost weight, got in better shape, acted more confident, were less needy, or played hard to get they would be more successful at finding “the one”.
The feeling that they aren’t cut out for a relationship is pervasive. Yet, they’ve begun to see some patterns emerge in their past few relationships that led them to ask for help.
When they first come in, my clients’ self-love is mainly based on their performance. Whether it’s how successful they are at work, how generous they are to others, how immaculate they keep their house, my clients’ definition of success is largely determined by external measures.
The fact that they’re having a hard time in the love department has them pretty stumped. In our first few sessions together, they say things like, “there must be something wrong with me”…..”I don’t think I’m cut out for relationships”….”I must have something on my forehead that attracts all the wrong ones”.
I truly get the frustration my clients feel from not getting the love they deserve. And I know the way out of the confusing maze.
Our work together will equip you with the road map you need to lead you with confidence to the love you deserve.
Schedule a consultation call today. You’re not meant to be alone. I can help.